They are really afraid of you. They fear you, hate you, want revenge, and try to sabotage you. Why? It's because of fear. Narcissists get very uncomfortable and panicked when someone they see as a "supply" realizes their own self-worth.
In the minds of narcissists, they believe they control everything, including when they discard their supply. If the supply leaves them before they're done with them, they become extremely panicked and confused. They thought they had everything under control, but suddenly the supply they still needed is gone.
Think of it this way: When you take medication for a long time, you become dependent on it, right? Now imagine quitting that medication suddenly without being prepared, causing withdrawal symptoms like anger, confusion, and cravings. Narcissists act similarly, but they won't show that they miss you or want you back. Instead, they punish you. They'll punish the very thing that made them question themselves.
Yes, they fear you, but they will never admit it.
From Teresa Santana , Quora
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